Thursday, February 14, 2008
How Can I Make My Own Projector
No doubt this is the next gadget that we will have to buy. Technology finally finds its most useful and rewarding! With you, the iJam.
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Friday, February 8, 2008
Impetigo In Rottweilers
NOTE: The events highlighted here are based on the author's personal experience, any resemblance to reality characteristic of each of us is purely coincidental.
casual conversation:
- My love, you think of these cards? - Tells the Bride
- Well, actually I do not like much because
- Ok, but I sent them to buy and gave the lead - the bride responds
- Why ask me opinion then? - Question the boyfriend with a little cranky
- Because I care what you think - affectionately says the bride
- But you made the purchase - the groom says
- Accurate - Answer the bride.
Now I am in wedding plans, I am one of those men who have gone through that cycle in the relationship is known as "Bride Neurotica." That is why I want to share some my thoughts with you, because I think that experience is to count and analyze.
First and foremost: I was married this whole process has seemed not only interesting but fun.
Before leaving readers to fill all my e-mail death threats or hate speech, think a moment: In Western society, the women are taught that one of their goals in life is not only find that ideal person, but to ILLEGAL life partner that not even think of another person as a partner. Using an analogy, "are making the cattle."
During his childhood days are surrounded by games that educate couples seeking stability during adolescence measure their popularity by their ability to interact effectively with the opposite sex. That is, it is almost impossible to think of a woman who does not have the illusion of the perfect wedding, where she has control and knows exactly what he wants.
is where the groom loses the battle. Usually the man is just looking for happiness of the bride, so it gives up control of the wedding from the start regardless. Within us we like to think that we have power of decision, but the bride has control, and therefore the last word.
Decisions are usually authoritarian, so the boyfriend tends to be a mere spectator or assistant event.
There are exceptions, but usually these are due to external factors and are very unusual, do you have seen many men going to "wedding events" on their own?. At these events, most men take a passive attitude while the women stick together and flow like a fish in water. Are in their element, taking control of a situation for which they have been educated.
She triumphantly lays siege to the suppliers, the man tried to help but usually do not understand the subtleties of an art that we are only beginning to see, while women have years of training, so that the subtleties has great value for her.
All this leaves me feeling confused: If he helps, does not help as you, for that you have to have an experience that you do not. If not help, I can assure you will have problems. If you think, your opinion is worth less, because you're not in a position of control. If no opinion, is placed in a position disadvantage. It's a difficult position where there seems no solution other than to be the submissive during this cycle.
With that in mind, I leave, I go to another meeting with the photographer who chose it, the tailor, we have not met per is highly recommended, the cakes test again because the flavors do not stop to square (or idea what that means) in order to join the collective behavior only to the bride, who is the most important person in the groom's life, be happy .
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